Set goals using your Will/Ego/Heart Centre in Human Design

Happy Valentine’s Day, loves.

It’s not all about partnerships and playmates.

Love is about desire.

And as we move into the Gene Key 30, we’re focusing on goals.

Gate/Gene Key 30

Desire — Lightness — Rapture

There are two ways of looking at desire.

Desire can be an “OMG, I’d love that.”

Or it can be “I need that”.

Lemme explain.

Desire can have a frequency of love, passion, excitement. It evolves into the gift of lightness. Holding a desire with a light grip. If it materialises, it’s joyous. If it doesn’t materialise, it’s still joyous because it is a want, not a need. The desire becomes a game and a journey, not just an endpoint.

Conversely, we have the shadow of desire. The needy, grabby, wanting desire. It’s the feeling that you won’t be complete until you have it. The forcing wounded masculine or the “stamping of your feet”, wounded feminine.

If you have ever felt the frequency of someone who wants you sooooo badly that they lose their minds, then this is the frequency I’m talking about.

It feels yucky!

We can view our goals and our passions the same way. When we set our goals to prove something, to get something, to be accepted (or any other negative, shadow frequency)…